A tale of two kids ūüó°‚öĹÔłŹ

It’s beautiful to watch these kids grow into their own people and take on the world in their own way.

Today Claire announced that she was going to be making a sword for her Halloween costume, a character from Demon Slayer. After she put together a list of supplies, and we all made a trip to Michaels.

Back home, Claire spent a few hours making her sword with only little assistance with the spray paint. It came out good but not gerat – version 1.0. She’ll try again next weekend. ūüó°

Molly wanted to got running on the park to get back into triathlon form. I grabbed the soccer ball on the way out, and Molly ended up having fun playing soccer. I played goalie, and she tried to score on me. She got noticeably better even as we played! “Football is life,” was our refrain, Dani Rojas style. ‚öĹÔłŹ

It was a great fall weekend day with these amazing little people.

Halloween 2014

Halloween fell on a Friday this year.  Claire had been asking to have some friends sleep over for several weeks, and we decided to go for it on Halloween.  Why not get all the craziness over in one night?

So Claire’s friend Susie came trick-or-treating with Claire and Molly and us parents. ¬†Claire’s friend Dylan had trick-or-treating commitments in her neighborhood a few blocks away but joined us afterwards for the sleepover.

We did not expect anything but a lot of sugar- and friend-powered zaniness, and that is what we got. ¬†Many giggles were heard from¬†Claire’s room. ¬†Her and Molly’s toys were spread all over the floor, so much so that they girls could not find anywhere to put the sleeping bags, so they all ended up sleeping in the hallway around 10:30 pm. ¬†Dylan got a lollipop stuck in her hair, which¬†our dog Muffin tried to lick while Dylan was sleeping on the floor. ¬†Muffin also stole some of Dylan’s¬†candy, which was on the floor too.

Molly got to sleep on the inflatable mattress in our bedroom, which she always enjoys despite of protests of¬†“no fair” that she had to go to sleep before Claire and her friends.

The next morning there was a lot of running around, and candy wrappers could be found all over the house. ¬†The girls proposed¬†to all take a bath together. ¬†That was too much; someone was going to get hurt in the tub or just drip water allover the house. ¬†And Kit and Molly were leaving for a Pre-K family gathering right around then. ¬†So the girls settled for making a haunted house out of cardboard in the back yard. ¬†It had fake candles, ketchup for blood, the whole works. ¬†They even put together a “play” about the haunted house complete with a storm and lightening.

Claire would spend the afternoon over at Susie’s house, making their time together over 24 hours. ¬†They even pushed for a second sleepover at Susie’s that night, or at least dinner. ¬†They had to settle for lunch together at Thundercloud with Susie’s dad and then back to much needed rest¬†time with their families.

Well, Halloween doesn’t fall on the weekends that often, and I think we made the most of it!

Pumpkin Time

We had been trying to get to the pumpkin patch to get some Halloween pumpkins (and take some pictures) for a while.  A twice-canceled birthday party provided us that opportunity today.  Here are the pics.

Claire and Molly at the pumpkin patch  Claire and Molly as a scarecrow and a pumpkin

Halloween 2013

A few pictures from this year’s Halloween. ¬†We did trick-or-treating around the neighborhood for a while, then I took Claire to meet up with her friend in her nearby neighborhood while Kit finished up with Molly near our house.

It’s the TV, Charlie Brown

its-the-great-pumpkin-charlie-brownUp to this point, Molly has not cared about or even really noticed the TV, that big black rectangle on the wall that sometimes puts off random pictures and sounds.  Even when the TV is showing her beloved Elmo, Molly has been fairly hostile about TV.

Now, not watching TV is a good thing. ¬†But like all good things, it should be taken in moderation. ¬†Yes, Molly needs to be more moderate about not watching TV. ¬†I mean, if she completely boycotts the TV, then we have no simple and easy way to distract her from her frequent rampages around the house, harming herself or the furniture, or just making a mess. ¬†In fact, all of this happens almost daily. ¬†Now, if Molly could just watch some TV — just a little — then we could all get a little break now and then.

Watching The Peanuts
Molly and Claire relax together while watching “It’s the Great Pumpkin, Charlie Brown”

We finally had a break through on this front. ¬†The trick is not Elmo or Dora, but the good ol’ Peanuts. ¬†Charlie Brow and the gang finally hooked Molly. ¬†We don’t know why. ¬†But when we broke out the classic¬†It’s the Great Pumpkin, Charlie Brown for Claire for Halloween, Molly started actually watching. ¬†She actually just sits there with Claire and watches for a little while, maybe 15-20 minutes. ¬†It is a sensation. ¬†This is literally the first time Molly has really watched TV.

Now, of course one day, maybe not too far away, we may regret ever introducing Molly to the TV. ¬†But our experience with Claire in this regard has been pretty positive. ¬†She doesn’t watch very much TV, very little on weekdays, more on weekends, mostly due to time constraints. ¬†And what she does watch is generally movies provided by me and Kit, usually the same ones over and over, and not much junk TV with all those corrupting ads. ¬†In fact, I don’t think she’s really watched a TV show in a couple of years now. ¬†Let’s hope Molly follows the same pattern. ¬†Then again, for all we know, she may only like The Peanuts, which would be alright too.

Full Moon Fever

Full Moon

Claire continues to be scared by supernatural stories from her friend Sophia at school.  Since tonight was a full moon, she was told, she had to do the following to protect herself at bedtime:

  • Leave some chopped garlic with butter in her bedroom to ward off vampires (why not toss in some onions and saut√© for the start of a tasty recipe?)
  • Leave a light on to scare off werewolves
  • Leave the door shut to keep out ghosts

On Halloween night at midnight, she is also supposed to run into our room, throw herself under our sheets, and scream, then go back to bed.  This will protect her from rampaging trick-or-treaters, I gather.

After making it clear that we do not believe in vampires, werewolves, or ghosts, we let Claire indulge in a little garlic, a small light, and a shut door.  But this is for full moons only!

As for her friend Sophia, I think she has a writing career ahead of her, with her convincingly creative mind.


Just in time for Halloween, poor Claire has suddenly developed an intense fear of, well, anything she can’t see, especially ghosts and the “Candy Man”. ¬†Claire is scared enough that she literally will not be left alone anywhere in the house. ¬†If she is upstairs with me, and I need to go downstairs for something, she comes with me, for fear of ghosts. ¬†She feels especially scared in our bathroom, with all of its mirrors. ¬†Supposedly the Candy Man lives behind mirrors. ¬†If you say his name three times (or is it five?), he will come out of the mirror and kill you. ¬†This is a real fear — on some level, she thinks it might actually happen, which is terrifying, if you think about it.

In particular, Claire has had trouble getting to sleep. ¬†When we tuck her in, she grasps onto us for protection, and although she tries to fight through the fear, she has ended up in tears and begs to stay in our room. ¬†She keeps coming out of her room all shaken up. ¬†We have talked with Claire about these fears and how they don’t really make sense, and Claire agrees, but it doesn’t make her fear go away. ¬†We joked about ghosts, too. ¬†Suppose they were real, which they aren’t. ¬†Would a ghost really be scary? ¬†They can’t do anything. ¬†They just float around like a cloud. ¬†We people are the big, scary ones with our big, muscular bodies. ¬†Also, Molly would scare a ghost because she is so loud and would easily scream them away, if they existed, which they don’t. ¬†Claire wondered if Muffin would protect her, and we said yes, if ghosts were real, Muffin would be scary since she has such big, sharp teeth and can bark. ¬†We showed Claire Muffin’s teeth, and she was impressed how scary our teddy bear of a dog can be. ¬†After all this discussion, Claire headed to bed feeling good and safe. ¬†Ten minutes later, she was up crying and desperate for the safety of our company. ¬†She also wakes up in the middle of the nights looking for protection and is very hard to get back to sleep. ¬†This is how the fear works.

Claire has apparently been spooked by her classmates, who are spreading rumors of ghosts and ghouls. ¬†The stories are probably in good nature, but they really spook Claire. ¬†After discussing it with Kit and me, Claire said she understood that ghosts are not real, and she even told one of her classmates she knew her stories were not real, but she would play along for fun. ¬†Still, Claire is just spooked. ¬†Fear is fear, and it doesn’t always make sense.

After several tricky nights of getting Claire to sleep in her room, we came up with a couple of ways to take the edge off of Claire’s feeling of terror. ¬†One night about two hours after putting Claire to bed, she was still awake and scared. ¬†She asked for a drawing pad to get her mind off of things. ¬†Sure enough, after about 45 minutes of drawing flowers and peace signs, she was asleep, pencil in hand. ¬†It did not work quite as quickly the next night. ¬†Finally, last night, we decided to let Claire use the secret weapon of falling asleep, at least for Kit and me: audio books. ¬†Nothing works quite like audio books to lull you to sleep. ¬†We set up an old iPod Nano with Ramona the Brave, narrated by¬†Stockard Channing. ¬†In the story, Ramona, like Claire, also struggles with the fear of unknown scary things in her room at night, among other things. ¬†Claire and I have listened this audio book in the car many times, mostly on the way to pick up Molly from school. ¬†It did the trick tonight. ¬†Claire was asleep within minutes. ¬†She did wake up once in the middle of the night, though. ¬†But she was not scared. ¬†She just wanted to know how to adjust the volume on the story.

And this is how Claire got her very first iPod.