|Claire having a good moment at school.|
Claire has had a tough couple of weeks since starting kindergarten. It’s strange, because she actually likes her teacher a lot. And the other kids are fine. And she is doing okay while in school, for the most part. The teacher did ask her not to wear her new Twinkle Toes shoes because they are distracting her.
For one thing, Claire says she does not like Extend-A-Care. She is the only kid in her class who goes to Extend-A-Care. Extend-A-Care itself seems okay when I pick her up, but apparently, every other student in her class else has a parent or a big sibling or nanny to pick them up right after school (this is amazing to me). Claire is 1 of 22 who goes to Extend-a-Care, and she is all by herself when the kids split up to go home at the end of the day. I can understand how that would be a bad feeling.
And Claire is definitely “off” at home in the evening. I think she is exhausted from the early mornings and the new environment and all the new rules. By the late afternoon and evening, she is really wiped out. In the evenings, Claire is always at the extremes. She either mumbling or screaming, acting silly or crying, wiggling around or laying down flat on the floor, cuddling up to you or running away.
These have actually been some of the toughest weeks we have ever had with poor Claire, who is also asserting herself, you could say. She has discovered the joy of not doing what we ask her to do, even if it is something she has done 100 times before. She is basically rebelling, and she is driving us a little crazy, I must admit. But mostly we feel bad for her. She is struggling through a big transition, and hopefully with some patience and understanding, we can help her through it. I sure hope so, anyways. 🙂